I am always puzzled when I see the online fights of lovers turned enemies. It's always very strange how love turns to hate in an instant, after all the lovey dovey.
The most traumatizing situation is the one of celebrities because it's all over the internet and we now have what we call the "ONLINE IN-LAWS" who analyze the whole relationship infront of the whole world, because if anyone wants to get the real story, all they need to do is to tape the name.
Marriage is the same all over the world. Couples fight, have issues, some work things out and some don't know how to change, as boys2 men said in their songs.
The one that got me thinking is the one of Musical Act Harrysong, his estranged wife, and the mother of his children - Alexas Peras.
Online in-laws went into action what happened, he accused her of infidelity in a twisted way, and she accused him of same and being extreme with it.
When it got really serious, she claimed he bedwets due to his own accusations.. How could a relationship that started with so much love got so low? This means there is a thin love between love and hate, and the internet can't sort the situation. A therapist can be of great help.
We have the situation of AY comedian and his wife Mabel - this relationship was so beautiful all of a sudden, cases of infidelity, claims from both sides.. They are estranged right now. Sophia Momodu has been calling Davido out since the birth of Imade, and it's still the same situation. Now he is married to Chioma after assuring her, after so much scandals.
Chioma is a very wise lady, she never comes out and tells us how she and David argue, which makes her life easier honestly, she is very wise on this one.
I can't mention them all, but the ones I have mentioned is enough to tell us how messy a relationship can get, the being a celebrity makes it tough.
Everywhere they go, people would be looking at them in a certain way, because they know the whole story.
On the other side, as an average person living a quite life, people divorce and even do worse things than these celebrities but because it's not documented, people assume it's the celebrity's own that is worse.
Eagle Eyed Cherry said this in his song, "I wish that I knew what I know now when I was younger." I guess a lot people will wish to rewrite their love story because there is fire in a lot of love nest.
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