Ghosting can be
defined as a practice of ending personal relationship with someone suddenly and
without any explanation, cutting all communications, ignoring a partner without
any real reasons or justification.
It's very scary and
with social media and dating apps it has become so rampant.
These are the
reasons humans’ ghost:
For
Relationship: Both men and women ghost their partners when they have meet another love
interest that is presently driving them crazy and their present partner didn't
hurt them or treat them bad. The easier way is the silent treatment ignoring
like forming busy etc. A lady meets a very rich man that has started taking her
around the world and her former boyfriend didn't hurt her most of those chicks
ghost the guy and he is confused as to what he did. Same to a chick whose
boyfriend stops chatting her up on WhatsApp, he has seen a hotter chick.
Ghosting
a family
member: that does not take to
corrections once told the truth the person flares up. Most times in other to avoid
a war such people just blank and remain silent.
Some
get a better job,
relocate to a new country they just ghost their old friends due to their new
status.
In
work place
someone just live a job without dropping his or her resignation letter and disappeared,
and the boss's is confused that's serious Ghosting.
Finally the most
emotionally traumatizing one is after sex: the intense silence and, rejection, ignoring,
not sending messages - that has gotten people to mental homes.
To all the people
who have been ghosted and will be ghosted in the nearest future, it depends on
the relationship you have with whomever is ghosting you, reach out for the last
time and ask questions and make sure you clarify things, remain calm, respect
yourself and let them be.
Relationship is not
by force, so move on, face your life and one day that same person who ghosted you,
you might be the person finally ghosting them when they come back.
Celebrate yourself.
Powerful write-up, insightful with deep reasoning. Right piece for this time and age
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