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    Wednesday, December 4, 2019

    5 REASONS GHOSTING HAS BECOME A PART AND PARCEL OF OUR LIVES
























    Ghosting can be defined as a practice of ending personal relationship with someone suddenly and without any explanation, cutting all communications, ignoring a partner without any real reasons or justification.


    It's very scary and with social media and dating apps it has become so rampant. 


    These are the reasons humans’ ghost:


    For Relationship: Both men and women ghost their partners when they have meet another love interest that is presently driving them crazy and their present partner didn't hurt them or treat them bad. The easier way is the silent treatment ignoring like forming busy etc. A lady meets a very rich man that has started taking her around the world and her former boyfriend didn't hurt her most of those chicks ghost the guy and he is confused as to what he did. Same to a chick whose boyfriend stops chatting her up on WhatsApp, he has seen a hotter chick.


    Ghosting a family member: that does not take to corrections once told the truth the person flares up. Most times in other to avoid a war such people just blank and remain silent.


    Some get a better job, relocate to a new country they just ghost their old friends due to their new status.


    In work place someone just live a job without dropping his or her resignation letter and disappeared, and the boss's is confused that's serious Ghosting.


    Finally the most emotionally traumatizing one is after sex: the intense silence and, rejection, ignoring, not sending messages - that has gotten people to mental homes.


    To all the people who have been ghosted and will be ghosted in the nearest future, it depends on the relationship you have with whomever is ghosting you, reach out for the last time and ask questions and make sure you clarify things, remain calm, respect yourself and let them be.


    Relationship is not by force, so move on, face your life and one day that same person who ghosted you, you might be the person finally ghosting them when they come back.


    Celebrate yourself.

    1 comment:

    1. Powerful write-up, insightful with deep reasoning. Right piece for this time and age

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